holiday post mortem (part 7)

this post is about family & extended families & relatives..yes, as mentioned in the older post "you can choose your friends but not your family". there's not much one can do if one doesnt like one's family except just keep shtumb!

both kamar & i come from close knit family but truth to be told,  not semua ngam dengan kita. thats normal lah kan. kalau ada certain quarter yang buat tak kisah, kita nak buat macamana so just focus on those who care about us je lah. to kamar, tak kisah lah kalau orang tak kisah pun, tak kan kita nak paksa pulak.

i am the kind of person who may not show my affection openly unless  to those who are really close to me. i only speak when spoken to - this applies to friends and family alike. kalau orang tanya, i jawab. nama nak make small talks tu susah sikit thats why i dont like to go to kenduri kendara orang yang tak berapa kenal. i dont like to mingle. thats a skill to acquire and doesnt come naturally to me. for me, if i dont have anything good/nice to say, i might as well dont say anything at all. kalau cakap banyak2 nanti would be wrongly interpreted (which is the case most of the time) pulak. but one thing i realise, people open up/warm up to me easily, not that i perasan i'm friendly but maybe because i dont probe & ask questions.

i know ada few family members who were upset with us; me especially mainly due to differing opinions on certain matters; tapi nak buat macamana..thats just me like it or not. when its impossible to please everybody, then its best to be selfish and please myself first. tapi apa2 pun, by the end of the day, everything is well and good. bak kata pepatah "air dicincang tak akan putus" unless kalau pipe rosak or water supply cut off totally...paham2 sendiri lah kan.

end of story...sekian terima kasih. next post akan upload all the family pics.